Salaam again Nuba,
Yes, I am happy to find someone who is trying to Somersize and fast too! It is challenging. My trip was stressful as the country is in political turmoil. but al humd.. we came back OK so I am thankful.
I really think you should try to get up and have suhoor even if it is hard- it will make the day easier for you. I think if you prepare it the night before you will have an easier time. Then maybe make a soup for night. If you cook for your family, just eat what you need. You could make a fruit "soup" or a smoothie and then have the profats.
I know it is hard to get up. I have four kids and pretty much I am the one to get up at 3:30 and get things going so we don't all starve. But take if from someone who has missed a meal while somersizing and fasting. I think you mess with your metabolism too much that way and go into starvation mode and hold onto your fat like that.
Do you have any good suhoor recipes?